Raison, thanks for posting. This is a reminder that very few things we do impact only us. Even if they think they are not sharing it, just the act of them getting it impacts others.
This is the same thing that burns my britches with the folks who get a ticket from the police for going across a railroad crossing after the warning has started, and especially when a visible train is coming. They complain that it only hurts them if they get hit. Bull fuckin shit. We start with the engineer, the train crew who have to respond, all the folks standing around who watched it, the police, the fire department and first responders, the coroner, all the folks on the train who are stuck there, all the folks who are either stuck on other trains or have to find alternate transportation home or to work (which is not the easiest thing if the trip is up to 50 miles and you are single, as I know too well), all the people who actually depend on the person to do some job somewhere, etc.
There are also the people who love and care for them, though some days, I wonder why.
These people need to be wacked upon the head with a little John Donne.
No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were: any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.