Bill: I hadn't been following this thread, but I'm sorry to hear of your woes and the inevitable way you're life will be turned upside down. Hugs to you.
For what it's worth, absolute atheist though I am, I find the words of Solomon in Ecclesiastes 3 immensely calming for the way they illustrate that the world continues to revolve and life around us continues relentlessly:
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To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to rend, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate;
A time of war, and a time of peace.
Darkness might be coming , but there will be a new dawn and sunlight. Love yourself.
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We’re here for you, Bill. 
