It sucks growing old

[Frater I*I]

Slim, what would Big D have thought, if we all tried to visit him at once, before the end? Gregg's a pretty social guy. I can't think for him.

He could talk the ear off a deaf man...

[Foggy]

I have this vision of a couple dozen of us sneaking past security and bringing the doggies in for an unlawful visit. We'll sneak 'em in one a them rolling laundry baskets, this isn't my first time. Just gotta keep the dogs quiet. A dog oughta be able to lie doggo, is my rulin' on the subject.

This is a fantasy, mind you. Nothing real intended ... yet.

[Kriselda Gray]

I have this vision of a couple dozen of us sneaking past security and bringing the doggies in for an unlawful visit. We'll sneak 'em in one a them rolling laundry baskets, this isn't my first time. Just gotta keep the dogs quiet. A dog oughta be able to lie doggo, is my rulin' on the subject.

This is a fantasy, mind you. Nothing real intended ... yet.

Some care facilities do allow pets in for a visit. When I was in the hospital for a few months several years ago, hubby was able to bring Sabaka and Tasha (individually, though, not at the same time) to see me. It was exactly what I needed too! We just had to get a notice from our vet certifying they were up to date on all their vaccinations.

[sad-cafe]

I'm going to send a card this week.

I can NOT imagine having to go through all of this during the holidays.

Not to mention the most meaningful games of the season....although his beloved Bengals shat the bed and I can't even give him crap about that..................

[Slim Cognito]

Slim, what would Big D have thought, if we all tried to visit him at once, before the end? Gregg's a pretty social guy. I can't think for him.

Depends on how near the end. The last week when it was obvious he wasn't going to make it, no. But he would have loved to have visitors when he felt ok. In his case, they weren't allowed because his immune system was so compromised so that will also be a factor with Gregg.

In the meantime, how would he feel about video messages? Nothing he would have to interact with, we know that would be frustrating. Just a plain old video Thinking of you, Can't wait until you're back to your old self, kinda thing.

Does anyone here have the skills and time to do a Brady Bunch-esque video? We could selfie-video a short message, 5 seconds or so, with a long pause before and after and piece them fading in and out of a grid so he could hear from us all at once. Maybe not as tiring as lots of individual ones?

[pipistrelle]

Best to consult family as they know preferences and what he can handle.

[jcolvin2]

[Does anyone here have the skills and time to do a Brady Bunch-esque video?

We could call it The Malheur-Wood Squares.

[AndyinPA]

Having been on the inside of this with my husband last year, I would say it's way too early to be making plans. I heard a lot of the same stuff in the early days, but when it became obvious he wasn't going to make it, they stopped talking about that. All cases are different, and I hope for a much better outcome, but I'd say wait and see.

[sugar magnolia]

Having been on the inside of this with my husband last year, I would say it's way too early to be making plans. I heard a lot of the same stuff in the early days, but when it became obvious he wasn't going to make it, they stopped talking about that. All cases are different, and I hope for a much better outcome, but I'd say wait and see.

My thoughts also. Right now, a card would probably be best for both him and his family. I think it meant as much to me to know how liked and respected my dad was as it did to him. Even moreso once he didn't know the cards and emails were coming. But I knew.

[bill_g]

Agreed. Cards only at this time. There was not much to visit during Mrs month long stay in November. Plus you needed to dress up in a clean room suit to enter.

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[bill_g]

It's been a month, and I still cry when I look at these photos.

[neonzx]

His sister asked for no visitors. Cards and letters fine and they will be read to Gregg.

End of discussion, IMO.

[Foggy]

Yes, but that was this week. I'm hoping he makes some sort of long term recovery that will, someday, allow us to visit.

But you're right, this week, this month, until we hear differently from his sister, absolutely right, no visitors.

This is why I said visiting was a fantasy only.

Please everybody else stay as healthy as possible.

[Slim Cognito]

I got that. There’s nothing wrong with having a Plan B. Or a Plan Sometime in the Future when Circumstances Allow.

[Uninformed]

It's been a month, and I still cry when I look at these photos.

[johnpcapitalist]

I was going to work on a Fogbow Meetup in Cincinnati this summer, mostly because Gregg is there and knows a lot of things we can do together, but now what? Maybe by then he'll be stable enough for a short group visit. There must be some way we can show our love and appreciation for the Gregg who's been such a great friend and contributor to this forum.

I would be up for such a visit, if after further reflection and recovery that it would be something Gregg would like.

As far as stuff to do in the greater Cincinnati area, I can suggest a day trip to Dayton, an hour away, to visit the USAF museum. Frater and I could contribute perspective from our career experience.

[raison de arizona]

It's been a month, and I still cry when I look at these photos.

I just wanted to add my

[bill_g]

It's been a month, and I still cry when I look at these photos.

I just wanted to add my

Thank you both. It's like I have a form of PTSD. I see something like it on TV, and the same feelings come to the surface. But, I still automatically look at the clock to see if it's time for her meds three times day. I still almost make her bed everyday. I still check her waste paper basket. I still check her wash cloth supply. It's going to be a while I think.

[Maybenaut]

In the waiting room waiting for my first appointment with a cardiologist. I’m not having any specific issues, but both of my parents and two of my brothers dropped dead unexpectedly from heart disease. I don’t want to find out I have a problem before it’s too late.

[Slim Cognito]

[June bug]

to bill and maybenaut

[Maybenaut]

In the waiting room waiting for my first appointment with a cardiologist. I’m not having any specific issues, but both of my parents and two of my brothers dropped dead unexpectedly from heart disease. I don’t want to find out I have a problem before it’s too late.

So far, so good. The cardiologist said the EKG was normal, but I’m right to be concerned. He said that although my parents and brothers were life-long smokers and I’m not, the family history is still concerning. So I have a stress test and an echocardiogram scheduled. for next month.

[Rolodex]

In the waiting room waiting for my first appointment with a cardiologist. I’m not having any specific issues, but both of my parents and two of my brothers dropped dead unexpectedly from heart disease. I don’t want to find out I have a problem before it’s too late.

So far, so good. The cardiologist said the EKG was normal, but I’m right to be concerned. He said that although my parents and brothers were life-long smokers and I’m not, the family history is still concerning. So I have a stress test and an echocardiogram scheduled. for next month.

Good for you for taking care of things! The older I get the less I want to go to the doctor!

[Foggy]

My second knee replacement is Jan. 29th.

[Kriselda Gray]

My second knee replacement is Jan. 29th.

Good luck!